From a young age, we learn that family is who we share a home with, who we grow up with, and who we should love unconditionally. But reality is often far from this picture of perfection!
Difficult siblings, parent-child tensions, non-nuclear families, adoptive families – these are issues that are also very common, and deserve to be talked about. Reading stories about various kinds of family relationships can also let children ponder about what they believe family to be, and how they can navigate their own.
With that, the spotlight of our book recommendation list today is: family!
Disclaimer: The books in the list (with the exception of the bonus list at the end) are found in the “P4 GEP Recommendations for Extensive Reading” list. Thus, all or most books are suitable for children aged 9 and above. Children may also benefit from discussing some of the themes and ideas in the books with their parents.
1. Tales of a Fourth Grade Nothing (Judy Blume)
No one believes Peter when he says his little brother, Fudge, is a devil. There is no end to the trouble Fudge causes, including getting mashed potatoes on the wall, and throwing temper tantrums – leaving poor Peter to sort out the mess. One day, Peter gets a pet turtle named Dribble, and he knows he has to keep it away from his brother – or else.
Written by all-time popular children’s author Judy Blume, this book is a hilarious and easy read about what it’s like to have a younger sibling. Children will readily relate to it – but hopefully, they won’t be learning from the antics of Fudge!
Suitable for: Ages 8 to 12
2. Dear Mr. Henshaw (Beverly Cleary)
What would you say if you were to write to your favourite author? Leigh Botts had just moved to a new town with his mother after his parents’ divorce. He thought nothing of it when he wrote to the author, Mr Henshaw, as part of a class assignment. But when he receives a reply, the pair begin to form an unlikely friendship.
This story provides an honest perspective through the lens of a young boy navigating a new family structure. A story about dealing with change, parents, and healing, Dear Mr. Henshaw is poignant yet accessible, and will also relate to kids who love to read and write!
Suitable for: Ages 8 to 12